La Mesa Sexual Assault Lawyer

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You don’t have to carry this by yourself. We're here to listen and stand with you.
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Jessica K. Pride
Jessica K. Pride

A Trusted Advocate for Assault Survivors in East County

Coming to terms with a sexual assault can be an incredibly personal and difficult process. You've carried something no one should have to, and it's okay to need space, answers, or simply someone who will take you seriously.

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No matter when your experience occurred—recently or years ago—your story is important. It may have been someone you trusted or a stranger, but what happened to you was wrong. Your response is real, and your pain deserves to be acknowledged with care and respect.

You truly deserve compassion, support, and the chance to seek justice. 

The Pride Law Firm is dedicated to empowering survivors like you and helping you reclaim your sense of control. Led by attorney Jessica Pride, recognized as one of California's leading advocates for sexual assault survivors, our team is here to support the La Mesa community and the surrounding East County neighborhoods. 

From the moment you reach out to us, you will be listened to and believed. We will gently guide you through the options available, ensuring you feel heard and understood every step of the way. 

You don't have to have all the answers right now, and it's completely okay to take things one step at a time. Just reaching out is a brave first step, and we are here for you. 

Let a compassionate La Mesa sexual assault attorney support you through your healing journey. Call The Pride Law Firm at (619) 516-8166 or send us a confidential message. The moment you reach out, we'll be ready to listen and help you take the next step.

Why Survivors in La Mesa Turn to The Pride Law Firm

The Pride Law Firm understands that recovering from trauma takes more than time. That's why we focus exclusively on sexual assault cases—a commitment that has shaped Jessica Pride's practice for over two decades.

As one of California's leading attorneys in trauma-informed legal care, Jessica has built a team dedicated to creating a space where survivors feel safe, supported, and empowered.

We represent survivors in La Mesa who have experienced the following:

  • Assault by someone they know or live with;
  • Rapes facilitated by drugs or alcohol;
  • Sexual violence in youth sports, schools, or church groups;
  • Groping or unwanted touching in workplaces or social settings;
  • Abuse by therapists, doctors, rideshare drivers, or other professionals they trusted; or
  • Childhood sexual abuse, even if it was decades ago.

These experiences often come with silence, doubt, or shame that was never yours to carry. We stand beside you, regardless of who caused the harm, where it happened, or how much time has passed.

Located just 10 miles from the heart of La Mesa, our San Diego office is here to provide a safe space. We also offer Zoom consultations, private in-home visits (when appropriate), and complete discretion, ensuring that you receive the confidential support you deserve.

A Legal Path That Respects What You've Been Through

After a sexual assault, many survivors are left feeling ignored, dismissed, or pressured to move on in silence. Legal representation should offer something entirely different. It should create space to be heard and support your right to take back control.

A national Martindale-Nolo survey found that survivors who worked with a personal injury attorney recovered nearly three times more compensation than those who filed alone. That difference speaks to what is possible when a La Mesa sexual assault lawyer truly understands your experience and is prepared to fight for your needs.

This process is about more than financial recovery. It's about being taken seriously and treated with the respect you deserve.

"I am privileged and honored to represent survivors of sexual assault, and I will not stop until I don't have a job anymore."

—  Jessica Pride | The Pride Law Firm

Serving the Entire La Mesa Area, Including:

  • Downtown La Mesa and the Historic Village;
  • Grossmont Center and surrounding residential neighborhoods;
  • Rolando, Lemon Avenue, University Avenue, and Baltimore Drive corridors;
  • Grossmont College students and young adults;
  • Renters in shared housing or apartments in La Mesa Springs or Lake Murray; and
  • City employees, teachers, service workers, or those harmed in public settings.

Whether the assault occurred at home, in a dorm, at a bar, in the workplace, or out in the community, you deserve support from a La Mesa sexual assault law firm that takes your experience seriously and shows up with strength and compassion.

What Happens When You Reach Out to Our La Mesa Sexual Assault Law Firm?

The first conversation is yours to lead. You can ask questions, tell us what you feel ready to share, or simply listen. No one will pressure you to make a decision or relive details before you're ready.

Here's what you can expect:

  • We'll introduce ourselves and explain how we support survivors;
  • You can speak freely or stay quiet, and either is okay;
  • A La Mesa sexual abuse lawyer will go over your options and answer your questions; and
  • Everything you say is private and protected.

You've already done something incredibly hard. We'll make sure the next step is manageable and respectful of your needs.

Client Voices: Real Stories of Strength

In this powerful testimonial video, several of our incredible clients share their experiences of taking legal action. You'll hear how The Pride Law Firm helped them move toward healing on their own terms.

You don't have to go through this by yourself. You are not "being dramatic." You're following in the footsteps of hundreds of brave survivors who decided to take their power back, and we'll support you every step of the way.

What is Sexual Assault?

Sexual assault is a deeply distressing experience that involves a range of unwanted sexual behaviors. It includes any sexual contact that occurs without your voluntary, sober, and enthusiastic consent. 

Some examples of sexual assault are:

  • Rape or attempted rape;
  • Groping or sexual touching without consent;
  • Assault that happens when someone is incapacitated by alcohol, drugs, or force;
  • Child sexual abuse;
  • Assault by a person in a position of power, such as a coach, counselor, or spiritual leader; or
  • Sexual abuse during medical, psychiatric, or massage appointments.

Please understand that you do not need physical evidence, like bruises or a police report, for your experience to be recognized as sexual assault. If you felt powerless, frightened, confused, or coerced, those emotions are completely valid. 

You are never to blame for someone else's actions. Consenting to a drink does not mean you consented to be violated. Jessica Pride addresses this directly in this short video and explains why alcohol or drug use does not take away your right to bodily autonomy.

Watch: Intoxicated During Sexual Assault—Is It Your Fault?

Where Sexual Assault Commonly Occurs in La Mesa

La Mesa is a vibrant part of San Diego County, but no community is immune to sexual violence. Many survivors in your area have experienced assaults while:

  • Using rideshare services like Uber or Lyft;
  • Visiting spas, doctor's offices, or wellness/counseling centers;
  • In bars or clubs along University Ave or Spring Street;
  • On or near the Grossmont College campus;
  • While under the influence at social gatherings or student parties; or
  • At work, especially for service industry employees.

Often, the person responsible is someone familiar, like a coworker, classmate, friend, coach, or supervisor. This does not make your pain any less real. And it does not excuse what they did.

Jessica Pride on the Cases for Causes Podcast

In this episode of Cases for Causes, Jessica shares what she's learned from two decades of standing beside survivors:

  • What to do in the hours and days after an assault,
  • Why the word "survivor" matters,
  • What justice looks like outside a courtroom, and
  • How to start conversations with kids about consent and safety.

Listening to her might remind you that you're not alone and that your strength is already showing.

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Let Us Carry This With You

You don't have to know what kind of case you have. You don't even have to know if you want to file. You just have to feel ready to talk, and we'll guide you the rest of the way.

Call us at (619) 516-8166 or send a confidential message online. Our La Mesa sexual assault attorneys and staff will treat your story with the care it deserves, and your privacy is always protected.

Legal Time Limits for Sexual Assault Cases in La Mesa

Many survivors believe they "waited too long" to speak up. The truth is that California law gives you time and legal options, even years after the assault.

General Civil Time Limit

If you were sexually assaulted as an adult, you typically have ten years from the date of the assault or three years from the point you understood the emotional impact, whichever comes later.

This means your opportunity hasn't necessarily passed. A La Mesa sexual abuse attorney can confirm your timeline quickly and privately.

Child Sexual Abuse Cases

Survivors of childhood sexual abuse can file claims until they turn 40 or within 5 years of discovering the lasting harm.

This extended time frame includes potential claims against schools, churches, youth programs, and organizations that failed to protect you.

You don't have to make any decisions right now. Just reach out when you can. We'll help you begin sorting things out at your pace and on your terms.

A Message From Jessica Pride: You Are Not Alone

Jessica Pride has spent her career representing sexual assault survivors. She's not only a trial attorney—she's a national voice for change.

  • Founder of the AAJ Sexual Assault Litigation Group,
  • First California attorney to hire a full-time Survivor Advocate, and
  • Leader in trauma-informed law firm practices.

When you work with Jessica and her La Mesa sexual assault law firm, you are treated as a person with dignity, not a case number. We are here to support your healing and your voice on your terms.

Talk to a La Mesa Sexual Assault Lawyer Today

Reading this page may have taken strength you didn't know you had. You don't have to decide everything today. You set the pace. When you're ready, we'll be here to listen, answer your questions, and offer a safe space to start.

Call (619) 516-8166 or send a private message to us online. We represent survivors across La Mesa, San Diego, and East County with the care and dignity they deserve.

You are not alone. You are not to blame. And you are not without options.

Frequently Asked Questions From La Mesa Survivors

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Do I need to report the assault to the police before contacting your firm?

No. You have the right to speak with a La Mesa sexual assault attorney first. Some survivors choose to file a police report, while others don't. Either way, your experience is valid. We can help you understand what each path looks like and provide you with the space to make the decision that feels right for you.

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Can I still file a claim if the assault happened during a rideshare trip?

Yes. If you were assaulted by an Uber or Lyft driver, or even while riding as a passenger with someone else using a rideshare app, you may have a claim against the driver and potentially the company. These cases often involve multiple layers of responsibility, and we're familiar with how to pursue them.

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Will I have to go to court or testify in front of the person who assaulted me?

Most civil cases are resolved outside of court, but we prepare every case thoroughly in case a trial becomes necessary. You will never be forced to testify. A La Mesa sexual abuse lawyer will walk through all options with you and only proceed in a way that honors your boundaries and emotional safety.

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Can I stay anonymous during a civil case?

Yes, in many cases, we can request to file using your initials or a pseudonym. California courts recognize the sensitive nature of sexual assault cases and often allow survivors to remain confidential during legal proceedings. We'll discuss your privacy options from the start.

“I just received the self-care package from your team, when I opened the box and read the letter from you all, it felt like a hug came right out of the box. Thank you so much, it meant so much to me.”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“I am also hopeful and beyond grateful that my voice is being heard! So I want to say thank you Jessica and Christy, for giving me a voice when I felt mine didn’t matter. You guys are truly angels fighting a great cause. I am forever grateful! Thank you so much!”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“Jessica has been the epitome of the word excellent. She is always easy to talk to and very approachable. Always directly available. Very truthful and efficient. I highly recommend her and her team!!”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“Your compassion, humility, and fierce advocacy, are the qualities that make you the incredible rockstar attorney that you are. We’re with you in this fight!”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“I’m graduating with a finance degree. I just wanted to say thank you for fighting for me. Turns out, I was able to put the pieces together.”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“I just received the self-care package from your team, when I opened the box and read the letter from you all, it felt like a hug came right out of the box. Thank you so much, it meant so much to me.”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“I am also hopeful and beyond grateful that my voice is being heard! So I want to say thank you Jessica and Christy, for giving me a voice when I felt mine didn’t matter. You guys are truly angels fighting a great cause. I am forever grateful! Thank you so much!”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“Jessica has been the epitome of the word excellent. She is always easy to talk to and very approachable. Always directly available. Very truthful and efficient. I highly recommend her and her team!!”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“Your compassion, humility, and fierce advocacy, are the qualities that make you the incredible rockstar attorney that you are. We’re with you in this fight!”

– Lauren Betters (Gender Equality Law Center, NYC) –

“I’m graduating with a finance degree. I just wanted to say thank you for fighting for me. Turns out, I was able to put the pieces together.”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“I just received the self-care package from your team, when I opened the box and read the letter from you all, it felt like a hug came right out of the box. Thank you so much, it meant so much to me.”

– Client of Jessica Pride –

“I am also hopeful and beyond grateful that my voice is being heard! So I want to say thank you Jessica and Christy, for giving me a voice when I felt mine didn’t matter. You guys are truly angels fighting a great cause. I am forever grateful! Thank you so much!”

– Client of Jessica Pride –